learning to say good bye

Discussion in 'ARCHIVE FORUM: Support discussions' started by simonmonty, Dec 23, 2009.

  1. Margaret W

    Margaret W Registered User

    Apr 28, 2007
    3,725
    North Derbyshire
    How peaceful it was, and how loving that you were with her, the wonderful son who had supported her through her final journey.

    You could not have done any more.

    Take heart from all that you did for her.

    Margaret
     
  2. simonmonty

    simonmonty Registered User

    Nov 22, 2008
    374
    Yorkshire
    Finding it hard going

    I'm finding it hard going to day. I just found out my special friend Lee Caron Bass who helped me through my cancer as well as fighting hers lost her battle and died on the 19th after a two year plus fight. I only found out today and the funeral has already took place. She was only 43 years old and so full of life and courage. Lee pulled me up when i was down and kept me going saying we can beat it even though she was so very ill her self. She was a truly inspirational person who cared more about others then her self just like my mother. :( Im up and down all the time and wish i could change places with them both. They deserve to live more than me.
     
  3. Izzy

    Izzy Volunteer Moderator

    Aug 31, 2003
    59,947
    Female
    Dundee
    What an awful blow for you at this already sad time. Take care. Izzyx
     
  4. living in hope

    living in hope Registered User

    Dec 14, 2008
    552
    yorkshire
    Hi Simon,
    So sorry to hear about your mum and your friend, my thoughts are with you at this sad time.
    Love
    Lorraine
     
  5. Margaret W

    Margaret W Registered User

    Apr 28, 2007
    3,725
    North Derbyshire
    Simon, no-one deserves to live more than you. Look at what you did for your mum. You have learnt a lot during the process of supporting your mum, you are a valuable and experienced person. You have been a star. You are rightly sad and grieving, but you definitely deserve to live, and your mum will want you to have a happy life after all you have done for her. Lots of us are grievin for lost loved ones. Join the club. We will all survive it together.

    Love and admiration

    Margaret
     
  6. christine_batch

    christine_batch Registered User

    Jul 31, 2007
    3,388
    Buckinghamshire
    Dear Simon,

    If it was not hard enough loosing your Mum, you have now lost a special friend. Now there are two more Angels in Heaven.

    This is my first Christmas without my husband so I know just how hard it is.

    God Bless
    Christine
     
  7. simonmonty

    simonmonty Registered User

    Nov 22, 2008
    374
    Yorkshire
    Thank you all for your kind words. Im learning to take one day at a time. Like i did looking after my beloved mum
     
  8. timthumb

    timthumb Registered User

    Dec 6, 2009
    283
    west sussex
    again simon love and admiration to you....you are in my prayers.god bless you
     

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