learning to say good bye

Discussion in 'ARCHIVE FORUM: Support discussions' started by simonmonty, Dec 23, 2009.

  1. Vonny

    Vonny Registered User

    Feb 3, 2009
    4,577
    Telford
    Dear Simon,

    Your mum's ending has touched me deeply. You have been such a wonderful son, who deserved the wonderful mum you had. What a great gift you have given each other.

    Please try hard not to get poorly again yourself now. You owe it to your mum to keep up your strength and stay in remission.

    Thinking of you Simon, with sincere condolences for your loss.

    Vonny xx
     
  2. Tender Face

    Tender Face Account Closed

    Mar 14, 2006
    5,379
    NW England
    I echo what Vonny has just said. Please accept my sincere condolences and my best wishes for your own health,

    Love, Karen, xx
     
  3. julieann15

    julieann15 Registered User

    Jun 13, 2008
    2,012
    Leicestershire
    Dear Simon
    Just to say I am thinking about you at this difficult time.

    Love Julie xx
     
  4. maryw

    maryw Registered User

    Nov 16, 2008
    3,805
    Surrey
    My sincere condolences at this very sad time. Take care.
     
  5. DeborahBlythe

    DeborahBlythe Registered User

    Dec 1, 2006
    9,222
    Dear Simon, sending you sincere condolences on the loss of your mother.
     
  6. Sam Iam

    Sam Iam Registered User

    Sep 29, 2008
    3,151
    WEST OF THE MOON
    Simon, you have such a fgood memory of your last christmas with your mum, you gave her so much comfort in her last minutes in this world and made her journey to next world easy. Always think of this Simon.
    What a wonderful son you have been to you mum. XXXX
     
  7. connie

    connie Registered User

    Mar 7, 2004
    9,519
    Frinton-on-Sea
    Please accept my sincere condolances at this sad time.
     
  8. Skye

    Skye Registered User

    Aug 29, 2006
    17,000
    SW Scotland
    Dear Simon

    What a very moving account of your mum's last moments. Yoy will cherish the memory, and hopefully it will ease the pain in the next weeks and months.

    You and your mum loved each other, and you were a wonderful son.

    Love,
     
  9. Izzy

    Izzy Volunteer Moderator

    Aug 31, 2003
    59,898
    Female
    Dundee
    Dear Simon. You tell of such a beautiful moment. Take care. Izzy x
     
  10. Bookworm

    Bookworm Registered User

    Jan 30, 2009
    2,581
    Co. Derry
    Thoughts of you Simon

    Thankyou so much, Simon, for sharing how very special your last moments with your Mother were. Perfect timing and peaceful memories for you to always treasure.
     
  11. sussexsue

    sussexsue Registered User

    Jun 10, 2009
    1,528
    West Sussex
    Simon, a beautiful tribute to your mum and what a lovely way to say goodbye.

    Good wishes for the tough days ahead.

    Take care

    Sue
     
  12. zoet

    zoet Registered User

    What a beautiful way to pass for your dear mum. Im glad you were able to share that Simon. My deepest sympathy to you. Stay strong. xxx
     
  13. donkey

    donkey Registered User

    Aug 16, 2009
    1,225
    sutton coldfield
    dear simon, such a tender heartfelt way you describe your lovely mums passing to be with her loved ones, and to wait for you to be by her side to give her your permission. its bought tears to my eyes and a lump to my throat thankyou for sharing this with us sending you my deepest sypathy xx
     
  14. snooky

    snooky Registered User

    May 12, 2007
    104
    devon
    Sending my condolences to you Simon, but, lovely that you were there with your mum and she went peacefully. Take care of yourself.
     
  15. Scottie45

    Scottie45 Registered User

    Jan 25, 2009
    1,409
    CoAntrim
    Dear Simon

    So sorry to hear of your mum,s passing,what a lovely passing,brought tears to my eyes,you take care at this time Marian xx
     
  16. nellbelles

    nellbelles Volunteer Host

    Nov 6, 2008
    8,459
    leicester
    Your Mum raised a very caring son. No one could have done more for their Mum's passing.

    Please take comfort from that in the weeks to come,

    May your God walk beside you.
     
  17. larivy

    larivy Registered User

    Apr 19, 2009
    5,225
    essex
    glad you were there with your mum sending all my condolences larivy
     
  18. simonmonty

    simonmonty Registered User

    Nov 22, 2008
    374
    Yorkshire
    Thank you all for your kind words.it has been a strange few days. Ive been talking to my mum as i know my mum is with me now and always watching over me. The rest of the so called family is now coming out of hiding. They just blank me out and ignore everything that i have done for my mum and as i knew are taking over my mums funeral arrangements. But i know my mum is telling me that they can do that easy part and for me to now stand back and take a rest. The next few days are going to be hard up to the funeral and after just because of the ignorant so called family. But my mums true friends all say they know the truth and are now sticking by me so it will make it easier on the day... simon
     
  19. Prague09

    Prague09 Registered User

    Jul 22, 2008
    174
    essex
    My thoughts are with you Simonmonty, you have have done everything you could....and your mum knows that. As for the rest of the family who have suddenly appeared they have to deal with their absences from your Mum in their own way.
    Prague.
     
  20. Winnie Kjaer

    Winnie Kjaer Account Closed

    Aug 14, 2009
    2,011
    Devon
    Please accept my sincere condolences too. I wish you strength in the coming days,weeks and months. Especially for the funeral which is so hard, but you know your mother is willing you on, she knows the truth more than anyone. Best wishes
     

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