phew what a night...
went to see dad, my brother M was there with his g/friend and her son and his son....
dad was on his bed, still refusing to eat or drink. He is now incontinent too...
He rambled on lots, giggling at jokes only he could hear. He did at one point ask for coal to be put on the fire as it was cold!
Myself and my brother were taken aside to be updated. They have changed his medication for the parkingsons, not because they feel it will make him better but to help his stiffness so they can move him better without hurting him. They have also prescribed a small dose of valium to help with pain and muscle relaxation.
I asked about procedures if dad passes or if they think he is close to passing, and they said they usually ring the next of kin unless otherwise advised. I expressed my concerns at mum being rung in the middle of the night as she is now on her own and she would become anxious.
My dear brother volunteered me as the 1st port of call.....mmmm
I spoke to mum about it when i got home, and at first she wasnt best pleased, i said i was happy to do whatever mum wished, she thought about it rung me back and said actually yes it was best if the hospital rang me first hey ho
Then mum rang back again to say a cousin of ours had rung as my uncle who lives in australia died at the weekend, he had the same conditions as dad!
I havent seen him since i was 8 years old and have vague memories, now have contact with my cousin whom i also havent seen since i was 8....
they say good always comes out of bad...i think i understand this..
visiting dad is so very difficult, i just want to cuddle him and cry and cry and cry
i want MY dad back......
sorry i seem to be posting a lot of sadness these past few days, but i have noone to talk to
love Jane x
went to see dad, my brother M was there with his g/friend and her son and his son....
dad was on his bed, still refusing to eat or drink. He is now incontinent too...
He rambled on lots, giggling at jokes only he could hear. He did at one point ask for coal to be put on the fire as it was cold!
Myself and my brother were taken aside to be updated. They have changed his medication for the parkingsons, not because they feel it will make him better but to help his stiffness so they can move him better without hurting him. They have also prescribed a small dose of valium to help with pain and muscle relaxation.
I asked about procedures if dad passes or if they think he is close to passing, and they said they usually ring the next of kin unless otherwise advised. I expressed my concerns at mum being rung in the middle of the night as she is now on her own and she would become anxious.
My dear brother volunteered me as the 1st port of call.....mmmm
I spoke to mum about it when i got home, and at first she wasnt best pleased, i said i was happy to do whatever mum wished, she thought about it rung me back and said actually yes it was best if the hospital rang me first hey ho
Then mum rang back again to say a cousin of ours had rung as my uncle who lives in australia died at the weekend, he had the same conditions as dad!
I havent seen him since i was 8 years old and have vague memories, now have contact with my cousin whom i also havent seen since i was 8....
they say good always comes out of bad...i think i understand this..
visiting dad is so very difficult, i just want to cuddle him and cry and cry and cry
i want MY dad back......
sorry i seem to be posting a lot of sadness these past few days, but i have noone to talk to
love Jane x