Unbelievably only 2 weeks on from thinking I would buy my pa a new smaller house where he lives, he is potentially spending his last night in his own home, and he doesn't know it.
I listened to all your wise advice and have found him a lovely care home 5 minutes from where we live (rather than a 3 hour round trip). He has just about been managing with 24 hour care, but I and my family can't manage any more.
I know that I have to do this, but this is such a low point. I am saying 'convalescence after your chest infection' and other well meant lies, but I think he senses what I am up to and it is so horrid.
I am here on my own with him, otherwise it seems to make a big thing of it, but the hidden packing and lies are so hard and it feels really unkind.
Fingers crossed for tomorrow please and how on earth would I have got this far without access to everyone else bearing their souls.
12 hours to go
Lizzie
I listened to all your wise advice and have found him a lovely care home 5 minutes from where we live (rather than a 3 hour round trip). He has just about been managing with 24 hour care, but I and my family can't manage any more.
I know that I have to do this, but this is such a low point. I am saying 'convalescence after your chest infection' and other well meant lies, but I think he senses what I am up to and it is so horrid.
I am here on my own with him, otherwise it seems to make a big thing of it, but the hidden packing and lies are so hard and it feels really unkind.
Fingers crossed for tomorrow please and how on earth would I have got this far without access to everyone else bearing their souls.
12 hours to go
Lizzie