1. sammyb

    sammyb Registered User

    Sep 19, 2007
    126
    Nottingham
    My laddo has gone. He died in the early hours of this morning. He was 66. I wasn't with him at the very end. 15 minutes beforehand I was, but not at the end. You will remember that he has laid all the time in a darkened room. Yesterday he asked for the curtains to be drawn back, the window opened and then he got out of bed and walked round the bed unaided - to my horror I have to say. If I may I will talk with you soon even though I will no longer have someone with AD because you have been the most amazing support I could ever have.

    love from sammyb
     
  2. lesmisralbles

    lesmisralbles Account Closed

    Nov 23, 2007
    5,543
    Dear Sammyb

    Our sincere condolences.
    My heart is breaking for youX
    With love Barb & Ron XX
     
  3. twinone

    twinone Registered User

    May 19, 2008
    269
    england
    Hi Sammy

    Please accept my condolences on the loss of your laddo.

    Take care of yourself at this time of grieving.


    Lots of love
    Janet
     
  4. jenniferpa

    jenniferpa Volunteer Moderator

    Jun 27, 2006
    39,429
    Ah Sammy, I am so sorry.

    Love
     
  5. julieann15

    julieann15 Registered User

    Jun 13, 2008
    2,012
    Leicestershire
    Sammy
    So very sorry to hear that your laddo has passed on. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.

    Julie and Ian xx
     
  6. BeckyJan

    BeckyJan Registered User

    Nov 28, 2005
    18,972
    Derbyshire
    Oh dear Sammy - I am so sorry to hear this. You knew it was to come, but the distress must still be with you. You have been one very special lady.

    My deepest sympathies. Love Jan
     
  7. connie

    connie Registered User

    Mar 7, 2004
    9,519
    Frinton-on-Sea
    Oh sammy love, how heartbreaking for you.

    Even though you were trying to prepare yourself for what was coming, I know that deep down you never can.

    May God's blessings be now with you both. Laddo for peace, you for the strength to face the future. Love n'hugs.
     
  8. Canadian Joanne

    Canadian Joanne Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 8, 2005
    16,059
    Toronto, Canada
    Oh Sammy,
    I'm so sad for you. He was too young. Please, please stay with us as and when you are ready. We need you too.
    Love,
     
  9. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    69,115
    Kent
    Dear Sammy

    I am so sorry. Please accept my deepest sympathy and sincere condolences.

    You may no longer have someone with AD but you will always be a part of TP. You have shared your Laddo with us and it has been a privilege.

    With love xx
     
  10. sad nell

    sad nell Registered User

    Thinking of you sammy , please look after youself and post when you are able to let us know how you are love pam
     
  11. Skye

    Skye Registered User

    Aug 29, 2006
    17,000
    SW Scotland
    Dear Sammy

    I'm so sorry. Your love for laddo has been clear in every post, and this is so sad for you.

    My love and prayers for you both. Please talk to us whenever you feel able, you have so many friends here.
     
  12. ROSEANN

    ROSEANN Registered User

    Oct 1, 2006
    909
    staffordshire
    Dear Sammy
    I sorry am so sorry for your loss.
    I feel so sad for you.
    Please take care
    Love Roseann
     
  13. Margarita

    Margarita Registered User

    Feb 17, 2006
    10,824
    london
    I am also so sorry to read that your husband has pass away xxx
     
  14. Lynne

    Lynne Registered User

    Jun 3, 2005
    3,433
    Suffolk,England
    Dear Sammy

    I'm so sorry ...

    I have read many times, here & elsewhere, that loved ones seem almost to wait for the few moments when they are alone to leave, and have experienced it with my Mum's younger sister. Do you have someone who can keep you company during the next few days? You know TP will be here for you.


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  15. Peapod

    Peapod Registered User

    May 19, 2007
    55
    Pembrokeshire
    I'm so very, very sorry. My thoughts are with you Sammy.
     
  16. gigi

    gigi Registered User

    Nov 16, 2007
    7,788
    East Midlands
    Sammy...

    I'm sorry Laddo has left you...

    It's incredible that he got out of bed and walked and looked at the day....take comfort in that..and the fact that you loved and cared for him.

    Please stay with us on TP if you feel you can...you'll always be part of the family here...

    My sincere condolences....

    Love gigi xx
     
  17. Amy

    Amy Registered User

    Jan 4, 2006
    3,453
    So sorry Sammy. Sounds as though your laddo was preparing yesterday to say goodbye.
    There are many of us here who nolonger have someone to care for with dementia, but we still have a place.
    Thinking of you.
    Love Helen
     
  18. sue38

    sue38 Registered User

    Mar 6, 2007
    10,856
    Wigan, Lancs
    Dear Sammy,

    I am so sorry that you have lost your laddo. I, for one, feel very privileged that you have shared your last days with him with us on TP.

    My thoughts are with you.

    Much love,
     
  19. christine_batch

    christine_batch Registered User

    Jul 31, 2007
    3,388
    Buckinghamshire
    Another Angel in Heaven

    Dear Sammy,

    I am so very sorry about the loss of your beloved Laddo.

    May you be granted the strength to get you through the coming days.

    Love from
    Christine
     
  20. JPG1

    JPG1 Account Closed

    Jul 16, 2008
    3,396
    Sammy,

    You were there with your laddo, you were there. And he knew you were. Every single inch of the way.

    We are thinking of you, as we were before.
     

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