Hello.
I think we've made terrible mistake moving my parents in with us. Dad has dementia and mum is his carer. She was finding it hard ao we extended the house and mum and dad moved in with us. The idea was that I would be on hand more to take the pressure off mum. The reality is that Dad has really deteriorated and mum has to do everything for him. I'm out at work all day so the only break she gets is for a few hours on an evening and over the weekend.
We are at the point where we need additional support for dad to give mum a break.
My question is, mum and dad pay us £300 a month towards the cost of food and increase in heating bills. Will thus be taken into account as an outgoing? They don't have any other outgoings so I suspect they wont be awarded and financial help.
I think we've made terrible mistake moving my parents in with us. Dad has dementia and mum is his carer. She was finding it hard ao we extended the house and mum and dad moved in with us. The idea was that I would be on hand more to take the pressure off mum. The reality is that Dad has really deteriorated and mum has to do everything for him. I'm out at work all day so the only break she gets is for a few hours on an evening and over the weekend.
We are at the point where we need additional support for dad to give mum a break.
My question is, mum and dad pay us £300 a month towards the cost of food and increase in heating bills. Will thus be taken into account as an outgoing? They don't have any other outgoings so I suspect they wont be awarded and financial help.