Got a call from Dads Nursing Home today saying he had turned blue whilst they were feeding him and was "non responsive" as they spoke to me...dashed over to the Hospital. Dad had "choked" whilst being fed (thickened diet) and had "aspirated" (not sure of the spelling)..he now has food in his lung which the hosp said will not clear and will cause pneumonia. They have asked us what to do if his heart stops...do we want them to resussitate due to his failing health. I discussed it with Mum (as much as I can due to her AD) and we decided that to ressucitate would be crueller than otherwise...feeling very scared and very sad.
My 2 sisters are still anti-me as they say I have killed Dad by getting him to hospital when he was seriously toxic with a UTI...
Feel very alone and very fed up with it all to be honest...
Sorry for moaning.
x
My 2 sisters are still anti-me as they say I have killed Dad by getting him to hospital when he was seriously toxic with a UTI...
Feel very alone and very fed up with it all to be honest...
Sorry for moaning.
x