just lost my mum

[Frankie15]

its just over a week since i lost my mum who was my world,i had cared for her for nearly 10 years with dementia with little or no help,in the daytime i keep really busy but night time i find it so hard,i am on my own and find myself going to bed early,i do have friends and a brother but prefer to stay here in my house where i spent over 50 years with mum,im totally heartbroken and miss her so much and cant see my life getting any better,its so quiet here

I'm so sorry. I lost my mum 5 days ago and feel your pain. I feel devastated of course but the thought that mum is now free from this terrible illness brings some comfort - for a while. I wonder if this is of any help to you. I too wonder what my role will be now. I'm an only child with no family of my own and am grateful for the support of friends now. I think it's too eart yet to contemplate the future just no you are not alone xx

 

[webby123]

I'm so sorry. I lost my mum 5 days ago and feel your pain. I feel devastated of course but the thought that mum is now free from this terrible illness brings some comfort - for a while. I wonder if this is of any help to you. I too wonder what my role will be now. I'm an only child with no family of my own and am grateful for the support of friends now. I think it's too eart yet to contemplate the future just no you are not alone xx

thank you frankie ,i cant beleive its been 2 years since i lost mum dosnt seem 2 minutes,really sorry to hear about your mum just take it one day at a time x

 

[webby123]

latest update from me,i still struggle to come to terms with life without mum and i have accepted the fact i always will,have become more reclusive,i think my friends and family think im doing well no one knows really im not ,on positive side i have been off cycling around uk this year easter around anglesey,june a150 miles around hampshire and wiltshire and have just come back from a 200 mile ride following hadrians wall in cumbria,been to a garden party at buckingham palace and started working for a repair cafe
dave

 

[Marcelle123]

latest update from me,i still struggle to come to terms with life without mum and i have accepted the fact i always will,have become more reclusive,i think my friends and family think im doing well no one knows really im not ,on positive side i have been off cycling around uk this year easter around anglesey,june a150 miles around hampshire and wiltshire and have just come back from a 200 mile ride following hadrians wall in cumbria,been to a garden party at buckingham palace and started working for a repair cafe
dave

Thanks for the update, Dave.
Your cycle rides sound great.

 

[LadyA]

Even though you might be struggling with life without your mum, it sounds like you are determinedly making a life for yourself. Well done you. And very well done on the cycling!

 

[webby123]

thanks marcelle and lady a im trying my best