Hi my husband Peter just won't get out of bed , he just gets up for a cup of tea and is lunch then he is back in is bed room ,I have tried everything but he is having none of it. My lady from the clinic comes and brings her dog so he will go out with her for a walk but now he just won't get up. Today we was going to my son,s house for lunch ,he would not get up but I managed to get him there, but now we are home he,s back in bed I just feel he is wasting his life, it makes life easy for me but it's such a wast , he is putting so much weight on because he is not doing anything the lawns want cutting and he keeps saying he will do it but he won't ,I want to get a gardener in but he said no, and last time I did something when he said no he went mad at me . I just feel so alone the children just say he can't help it but that is no help to me , I feel so alone in this I know you will tell me to do it all but it's so difficult I would do it but I don't like it when he gets angry it frightens me x thank you just wanted to get it of my chest xxx Christmas