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Just a Thank you to Talking Point friends.

velo70

Registered User
Sep 20, 2012
177
Devon
I am now coming to terms with the death of my beautiful wife, who died suddenly on February 12th. I wish to thank all the folk on this site, who gave help and advice, when I was sharing the despair brought into our lives with early onset dementia. Whilst most cruel, it was not the cause of her death. We were coping up to that point with humour and lots of shared love, and quite a few good days. Regards to you all.
 

WIFE

Registered User
May 23, 2014
856
WEST SUSSEX
Still early days Velo so do take very good care of yourself. I find grief stalks me at times and just when I think I am coping along it comes and knocks the breath out of me again. Thinking of you and your lovely Wife - taken too soon. WIFE
 

Sue J

Registered User
Dec 9, 2009
8,035
Velo, I am sorry to read of the sudden death of your wife. Thank you too for your posts which demonstrated the loving care you gave to her.
Look after yourself as you come to terms with your loss.
Sue
 

pamann

Registered User
Oct 28, 2013
2,635
Kent
Hello Velco sorry sorry that you are feeling the great loss of your wife, life is so cruel, l feel for you, just cherish all the happy mermories of the good times in your life together, try to get out as much as possible, hope you have lots of family and friends to support you take care of yourself.
 

velo70

Registered User
Sep 20, 2012
177
Devon
Just a Thank you

Velo, I am sorry to read of the sudden death of your wife. Thank you too for your posts which demonstrated the loving care you gave to her.
Look after yourself as you come to terms with your loss.
Sue
Hi, Sue J. Special thanks to you on the information you gave me, which also helped me learn at a certain time. Good luck and regards to you.
 

velo70

Registered User
Sep 20, 2012
177
Devon
Just a Thank you

Many condolences on your sad news, velo. Thinking of you. Verity

Sent from my GT-N5110
Hi. Thanks. That fair gave me a start. My wife's middle name was Verity, which is unusual, and how she was addressed many years ago by her mother, when mum not pleased.
 

velo70

Registered User
Sep 20, 2012
177
Devon
Thank You

Still early days Velo so do take very good care of yourself. I find grief stalks me at times and just when I think I am coping along it comes and knocks the breath out of me again. Thinking of you and your lovely Wife - taken too soon. WIFE
You are so right in your summary of the grief. It hurts slightly less, but like you say, now and again a sudden avalanche just comes from nowhere and demolishes like a tidal wave. Great family, and friends have emerged from way in the past, to express love and their own take on the fun and friendship that was my Gillie. And Thomas Hardy words seem so appropriate on occasions. Wow, thank you.
 

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