Mum's in later stage, generally friendly but... I am going on holiday with other half on Monday, live-in carer for a week for mum then a few days in the lovely new care home just down the road that she loves. Except she's told everyone she hates it, and told me she loves it. Yesterday she went silent and unresponsive when I told her the plan then spent half an hour talking about my awful and completely invisible sister who hasn't visited for 8 months or even bothered to phone in the last two months.Rushing round yesterday trying to get everything sorted for the holiday, popped round to check all well and greeted by a full on 'poonamy'. It is all over the toilet, all over the corridor floor, on the bedroom carpet, all over the bed, streaked all over mum, on the kitchen chair, deeply ingrained in fingernails and on soles of shoes etc etc. I cleared it all up, showered and redressed her, all the time frantically clock-watching because of various appointments I had to get to. Today I just feel like I don't want to do this any more. I can deal with the poo, I can deal with everything but not with what feels like her 'guilt-tripping' me over my holiday. I just feel so resentful. It's not pretty but it is how I feel.