Update
Dad has spoken to the advisor at the bank and explained everything that was concerning us. Initially this was with the intention of arranging a meeting to sort everything out, if necessary.
She has told him categorically that there is absolutely no need for him to worry, that they know all about mam and dad's situation, that he must not worry about what has been published on the internet, that the bank is aware that there is nothing fraudulent going on, and that he can keep their joint account as it is, and operate it as he has been doing.
So this is a big weight off our minds. I have, however, suggested to dad that he ask her to confirm it in writing. (Whether he will do this is another matter!)
I must confess that I hesitated to post this update because I have a feeling that I may get some disbelieving responses - which I do understand because it does seem to be going against the published information - but dad has been with this bank forever, and trusts the people he deals with, and will listen to their advice when they tell him not to worry.
There is still a (very) small niggle of doubt in my mind, I must confess, but after this categoric assurance from the bank I feel that I must let the matter drop now and not push it any further, as this will only stress my dad. If the worst does come to the worst, we will have to deal with it at the time.
Many thanks to everyone who contributed, though, as it's all been very helpful.
Dad has spoken to the advisor at the bank and explained everything that was concerning us. Initially this was with the intention of arranging a meeting to sort everything out, if necessary.
She has told him categorically that there is absolutely no need for him to worry, that they know all about mam and dad's situation, that he must not worry about what has been published on the internet, that the bank is aware that there is nothing fraudulent going on, and that he can keep their joint account as it is, and operate it as he has been doing.
So this is a big weight off our minds. I have, however, suggested to dad that he ask her to confirm it in writing. (Whether he will do this is another matter!)
I must confess that I hesitated to post this update because I have a feeling that I may get some disbelieving responses - which I do understand because it does seem to be going against the published information - but dad has been with this bank forever, and trusts the people he deals with, and will listen to their advice when they tell him not to worry.
There is still a (very) small niggle of doubt in my mind, I must confess, but after this categoric assurance from the bank I feel that I must let the matter drop now and not push it any further, as this will only stress my dad. If the worst does come to the worst, we will have to deal with it at the time.
Many thanks to everyone who contributed, though, as it's all been very helpful.
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