As some of you know now my OH has vascular dementia , I think he has gone on to the next stage now as soon as its starts to get a bit darker his mood changes yes I know its sundowning but he changes to this gentle man to a man I dont regonise any more.
On top of this he has a UTI AGAIN .Dr has prescribed stronger anti biotics this time
Its about its getting to be every other night now and its been going on for about 2 months the same story are we going home now?
We are just starting to go into dark nights and as soon as its starts coming in dark my stomach starts churning.
I have tried love lies but he is getting used to them now on thursday night he went out side and was waiting for me to take him home told him no petrol in car and got a mouthful of abuse, I then lost my temper and said to him go and dont bother coming back which he was quite shocked with eventually came in house. Tonight I hid the keys so he couldnt get out and he just glared at me, sat in stony silence for 3 hrs until he went to bed.
I dont know if I can carry on like this Im not frightened of him but I am wary car keys and mobile always close by.
Surely there must be a drug which could calm him down, I dont want to live like this for the unforseeing future.
On top of this he has a UTI AGAIN .Dr has prescribed stronger anti biotics this time
Its about its getting to be every other night now and its been going on for about 2 months the same story are we going home now?
We are just starting to go into dark nights and as soon as its starts coming in dark my stomach starts churning.
I have tried love lies but he is getting used to them now on thursday night he went out side and was waiting for me to take him home told him no petrol in car and got a mouthful of abuse, I then lost my temper and said to him go and dont bother coming back which he was quite shocked with eventually came in house. Tonight I hid the keys so he couldnt get out and he just glared at me, sat in stony silence for 3 hrs until he went to bed.
I dont know if I can carry on like this Im not frightened of him but I am wary car keys and mobile always close by.
Surely there must be a drug which could calm him down, I dont want to live like this for the unforseeing future.