Elaine,
I've only just caught up with this thread. You seem to have found a gem! I can hear the relief in your post! It must be lovely to be able to leave Gary happily engaged in doing something with someone else. I'm sure you'll start to find lots of things to do once you get used to it!
I'm so pleased for you, you really deserve the chance to recharge your batteries,
Love and hugs,
Sue xxx