1. zan

    zan Registered User

    Jan 4, 2006
    96
    staffordshire
    Dear All, I just wanted you to know that my Dad died at about 1.30 am today.

    We visited in the evening and his eyes were open throughout our visit, just looking at us and listening while I chattered away.

    We left at about 8.30 and had a phone call at 1.20 asking us to go back. He was already dead.

    It has been an awful 3 years, with both Mum and Dad being ill at the same time. At least I know that they are now together again and their suffering is over. They will be greatly missed.

    I wish that I had found this wonderful talking place and you wonderful people at the beginning of those three years rather than close to the end. Perhaps with the publicity given on TV at the moment more people will find this site when they need
    it.

    Thankyou all for your support and for 'holding my hand' over the last few months.

    Zan
     
  2. twink

    twink Registered User

    Oct 28, 2005
    265
    Cambridgeshire UK
    so sorry

    Hi Zan,

    I am so sorry to hear your very sad news. I know just how you are feeling which of course so many of us do. Thinking of you at this very sad time.

    Love Twink
     
  3. janey

    janey Registered User

    Jun 29, 2004
    86
    I'm so sorry Zan - I'll be thinking of you.
     
  4. connie

    connie Registered User

    Mar 7, 2004
    9,519
    Frinton-on-Sea
    Zan, words are never enough. Just to let you know I am thinking of you at this time.

    Thankyou for sharings dad's last journey with us, and for letting us into your life.
    Your words have helped many here on TP.

    Look afteryourself, Connie
     
  5. daughter

    daughter Registered User

    Mar 16, 2005
    824
    Dear Zan, Connie's right, words are never enough but I just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you too. Take care, Hazel.
     
  6. Norman

    Norman Registered User

    Oct 9, 2003
    4,348
    Birmingham Hades
    Zan
    I have no words that will mean anything,but I am thinking of you .
    Keep in touch
    Norman
     
  7. jarnee

    jarnee Registered User

    Mar 18, 2006
    181
    leicestershire
    Zan,

    I am so very sorry. I know that nothing I can say will come close to comforting you, but I want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you

    Jarnee
     
  8. noelphobic

    noelphobic Registered User

    Feb 24, 2006
    3,452
    Liverpool
    So sorry Zan. Take care of yourself.
     
  9. smile

    smile Registered User

    Oct 25, 2005
    7
    tenerife
    Best wishes Zan, the feeling of emptyness and wandering around like a lost soul will pass in time but the good memories never will
     
  10. My thoughts with you and your family at this time.

    Take care.

    :)

    Neil.
     
  11. Sheila

    Sheila Registered User

    Oct 23, 2003
    2,259
    West Sussex
    Dear Zan, thinking of you at this sad time. If you need us, we are here for you. Love She. XX
     
  12. BeckyJan

    BeckyJan Registered User

    Nov 28, 2005
    18,972
    Derbyshire
    So sorry to hear your news. I hope you find some comfort in knowing you have done your utmost in caring, both for you Dad and your Mum. They say time heals but in the meantime try to take time for yourself. Best wishes. BeckyJan
     
  13. jks

    jks Registered User

    Jul 2, 2005
    67
    West Yorkshire
    My thoughts are with you at this sad time.
    jks
     
  14. Lulu

    Lulu Registered User

    Nov 28, 2004
    391
    I'm so, so sorry ....
     
  15. Linda Mc

    Linda Mc Registered User

    Jul 3, 2005
    1,881
    Nr Mold
    Dear Zan

    I wish I had the right words to say but I am thinking of you.

    Love Linda x
     
  16. May

    May Registered User

    Oct 15, 2005
    627
    Yorkshire
    Zan, So sorry to hear your news, thinking of you. Take care
     
  17. Tender Face

    Tender Face Account Closed

    Mar 14, 2006
    5,379
    NW England
    So sorry. Thank you for sharing your journey.

    God Bless, Tender Face.
     
  18. KaC

    KaC Registered User

    Feb 26, 2006
    32
    surrey
    Zan,
    I am so sorry for your sad news
     
  19. janjan

    janjan Registered User

    Jan 27, 2006
    229
    Birmingham
    So sorry for the sad news of your dad. Thinking of you at this sad time. Janet
     
  20. Sandy

    Sandy Registered User

    Mar 23, 2005
    6,847
    Dear zan,

    I am sorry for your loss at this sad time. You have been through so much over the past three years. Give yourself plenty of time and space to grieve, reflect and accept support from family and friends (including your TP friends).

    Take care,

    Sandy
     

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