Could you approach it on that basis then CG, that these measures are 'just for now, whilst this is happening' and that when your Mum doesn't need them anymore they are easily removed. And that they're there to make things easier for your Mum, rather than easier for your Dad? For instance, she wouldn't have to be able to make it all the way to the loo if there's a commode right next to her and her sleep will be less disrupted with Kylie sheets and her rest is important.
It's probably a step too far given what you've said but would he agree to pull-ups for Mum for night times? Tena are the best by a long way (in my experience) and they do an extra absorbent night time one that a friend of mine swore by for his mother - he said it weighed a ton when he took it off in the morning but his Mum slept soundly all night and the bed was always dry.
Re my previous post, thanks Sue! On the basis of that I have named Tena, wish I did have shares in them, huge market!
It's probably a step too far given what you've said but would he agree to pull-ups for Mum for night times? Tena are the best by a long way (in my experience) and they do an extra absorbent night time one that a friend of mine swore by for his mother - he said it weighed a ton when he took it off in the morning but his Mum slept soundly all night and the bed was always dry.
Re my previous post, thanks Sue! On the basis of that I have named Tena, wish I did have shares in them, huge market!
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