So, apparently according to my OH last night, his memory problems are mainly in my head! He only forgets names..
And I'm influencing our son to be against him!
He can still fix a light switch, he can sort out the finances etc etc.. If he hadn't been to the doctors then no one would be complaining or have an excuse to say that there was something wrong with him!
Apparently that's my fault too, making him see a doctor in the first place.
It's my fault that I sort his tablets and give them to him four times a day, he's quite capable, he only lets me do it because it makes him feel cared for!!
So I ended up saying that he could sort his own medication out - I don't need to be doing it, he should keep as independent as possible. I explained that the reason I was doing this job was because he was forgetting to take his meds, but that if he felt confident then he should do it.
And I'm influencing our son to be against him!
He can still fix a light switch, he can sort out the finances etc etc.. If he hadn't been to the doctors then no one would be complaining or have an excuse to say that there was something wrong with him!
Apparently that's my fault too, making him see a doctor in the first place.
It's my fault that I sort his tablets and give them to him four times a day, he's quite capable, he only lets me do it because it makes him feel cared for!!
So I ended up saying that he could sort his own medication out - I don't need to be doing it, he should keep as independent as possible. I explained that the reason I was doing this job was because he was forgetting to take his meds, but that if he felt confident then he should do it.