my mum has vascular dementia, she lives in yorkshire I live in london. We lost my dad 18months a go than lost my brother 6 months later all of this has had a catastohic effect on my mum. I had to arrange both funerals and suport my mum emotionally I call her very day and spend at least an hour on the phone, I vivist as often as i can, all my anual leave is taken up with visiting her, i enjoy being with her and we always have a laugh together. She lives alone and is becoming very frail, her short term memory is getting so bad and I worry about her so much now. sorry for the ramble but i'm not sure how I can carry on.