[QUOTE=Grannie G]Panda and Taffy, Hold tight.
It might be a bumpy ride but the dreaded deed is done and however long it takes, the worst is over and you will eventually be able to move forwards.
Take comfort from knowing the reactions are normal, but common sense tells you it`s all for the best.
You know you are good daughters. You know how much you have both worried about your mothers and how much it has taken out of you.
Take care, it shouldn`t be long before your posts are much happier.
Love[/QUOTE]
Dear Taffy and Panda,
As always, Sylvia has put it in a nutshell! You must both be feeling awful at present and I can only say how much I feel for both of you. Altho' my parents settled well, it was not without its ups and downs.
As Hazel says As Bruce says, it's something you just have to get through. You have no reason to feel guilty, so don't listen to that monster. Kick him into touch!
Please stay strong, know you have done what has to be done, and remind yourselves that there was simply nothing else to do that offered the same degree of care that your mothers needed.
We on TP are here to remind you of the above facts whenever you need reminding!! And in the meantime, some
{{{HUGS}}} for each of you!