...it's all a memory now...

Discussion in 'ARCHIVE FORUM: Support discussions' started by citybythesea, Jun 7, 2008.

  1. citybythesea

    citybythesea Registered User

    Mar 23, 2008
    coast of texas
    Mom left me this morning. No longer are the duties of her comfort in my hands.
    She is at peace after a hard battle. Their are no tears of sorrow, only tears of joy knowing that she is now in the comfort of arms of the one who loves her most. This morning I sit in her room contemplating the life she had and the life that will now come into this world. Her great grandbaby is on the way and with this sorrow she will have passed on the ability to love and go on without her.


  2. Lynne

    Lynne Registered User

    Jun 3, 2005

    I am so sorry for your loss, but glad that you can find comfort in her memory, and the continuity of family life.
    I'm sure there will be many occasions when you feel her and her love for you at your shoulder.
  3. sarah<3

    sarah<3 Registered User

    Apr 12, 2008
    im so sorry. That was really lovely, seeing it like that, knowing that she'll be happy, and want you to be the same
    take care
  4. Skye

    Skye Registered User

    Aug 29, 2006
    SW Scotland
    Dear Nancy

    I'm so sorry to hear your news. But glad that you have found peace in the knowledge that your mum is whole again, and in the arms of her loved one.

    You have been a wonderful daughter to her, and I'm sure she knew how much she was loved.

    Now you have a new life to look forward to, and know that your mum will live on in your grandchild.

    Love and hugs,
  5. connie

    connie Registered User

    Mar 7, 2004
    Dear Nancy, your post was so moving.

    Sorry to read about your dear mum, and send you sincere condolences at this time.
  6. christine_batch

    christine_batch Registered User

    Jul 31, 2007
    Another Angel in Heaven

    Dear Nancy,
    Sending you sincere condolences on lost of your beloved Mum.
    Now she is finally at peace and no longer suffering.
    Take strength that your have tour beliefs to carry you through this terrible time.
    God Bless
  7. BeckyJan

    BeckyJan Registered User

    Nov 28, 2005
    I am so sorry to hear about your Mum but oh wow what about this baby! - your Mum' spirit will no doubt live in it/him/her.

    Take care - you know now your Mum is at peace.

    Love Jan
  8. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    Dear Nancy

    We have witnessed a remarkable relationship between you and your mother.
    I feel you have both found peace.
    Love xx
  9. sue38

    sue38 Registered User

    Mar 6, 2007
    Wigan, Lancs

    I'm so sorry to hear about your mum's passing. Your post was so moving. I hope that you continue to find comfort knowing your mum's suffering is at an end and that she is in a better place.

    Please stay with us.

  10. Bristolbelle

    Bristolbelle Registered User

    Aug 18, 2006
    Dear Nancy

    I dread the day I post the final message about my Mum, and every one I read breaks my heart. You seem to have found a lot of spiritual strength and comfort in the knowledge that you did you best and your Mum is now at rest. I'm sure if she could thank you she would with all her heart, and now she is looking over you and learning how to use her angel wings to guard you.
    Be kind to yourself at this difficult time

    warmest thoughts


    ROSEANN Registered User

    Oct 1, 2006
    Dear Nancy
    So sorry to hear your news but thank you for sharing your story with us.
    You have been a wonderful daughter to your mum and I am sure you will be a wonderful grandmother.
    Much love to you and your family.
    Take care Roseann
  12. lesmisralbles

    lesmisralbles Account Closed

    Nov 23, 2007
    My Dear Nancy,
    A battle was fought.
    Your love for your Mum was plain for all to see.
    God Bless.
    With much love
    Barb & Ron XX
  13. May

    May Registered User

    Oct 15, 2005
    Nancy, so sorry to hear about your Mom, she is free of suffering. Sending deepest sympathy and prayers to you and your family. Take care of yourself.
  14. jc141265

    jc141265 Registered User

    Sep 16, 2005
    Dear Nancy,
    I too am sorry to hear of your loss.
    Hopefully the oncoming birth can ease a little of your pain, and no matter what your spiritual beliefs, your mother will live on through your grandchild just as she does already through you and your children via her genes and the lessons she taught you all that you will pass onto the next generations.
    Take care,
  15. Margaret W

    Margaret W Registered User

    Apr 28, 2007
    North Derbyshire
    Dear Nancy

    So sad to hear your news, take care of yourself in your loss, and rejoice in the coming baby who may inherit some of your mum's personality.

    Best wishes and love

  16. andrear

    andrear Registered User

    Feb 13, 2008
    Hi Nancy

    What beautiful moving words from you. I hope you will find the peace you deserve and enjoy the new baby when the time comes.
    Love Andrea
  17. Margarita

    Margarita Registered User

    Feb 17, 2006
    Your right the greatest gift a parent can give a child is to show them the ability to Love, your mother surely done that for you & your family , as I read your posts about your mother . Sorry to read about your mother passing xx
  18. jackie1

    jackie1 Registered User

    Jun 6, 2007
    Dearest Nancy,

    So sorry for you and your families loss, yet pleased that your mum has found peace.

  19. Katie Malarkey

    Katie Malarkey Registered User

    Mar 29, 2008
    Dear Nancy,

    I'm so sorry too. I'm sending you a big hug right from my heart xxx

  20. Nutty Nan

    Nutty Nan Registered User

    Nov 2, 2003

    Dear Nancy,
    Your posts are so inspirational - my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Take comfort in keeping your mother's memory alive for all who come after her.

    Take care of yourself!

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