This is the 1st time I have had to come to this section of the forums. Until now I have been only visiting the I care for a person with Dementia part of the site.
Mum was admitted to hospital after a bad fall last week. After an op, things have really gone downhill. Not so much with memory but with eating and drinking. She was on a drip, taken off it but now back on it. There is a chance she will also have a blood transfusion.
She weighs 5st 13lb and looks so thin. She eats a couple of spoons of food and that is enough. To me it appears she is having trouble swallowing. An assessment is being done today.
Although we haven't been told so, I really think we are beginning the end of life care now. I have tried to prepare Dad for this but as you can appreciate at 90, he doesn't want to accept it. I have sisters that live very close but I am 140 miles away and feel a bit isolated and scared!
Anyway, that's my story, so I am sure I will be posting a lot!
Mum was admitted to hospital after a bad fall last week. After an op, things have really gone downhill. Not so much with memory but with eating and drinking. She was on a drip, taken off it but now back on it. There is a chance she will also have a blood transfusion.
She weighs 5st 13lb and looks so thin. She eats a couple of spoons of food and that is enough. To me it appears she is having trouble swallowing. An assessment is being done today.
Although we haven't been told so, I really think we are beginning the end of life care now. I have tried to prepare Dad for this but as you can appreciate at 90, he doesn't want to accept it. I have sisters that live very close but I am 140 miles away and feel a bit isolated and scared!
Anyway, that's my story, so I am sure I will be posting a lot!