Hi, it has been a long time since I came to this site. Mum is still in the care home, but has deteriorated badly, she is now doubly incontinent and has given me a new name, the name of a cousin who has not been seen for 20 years. She asks me if I know her daughter, which is me of course! She cannot remember many members of the family, but remembers my son, his name and the fact that he has qualified as a doctor recently, amazing. She cries a lot now, whereas not that long ago, she did a lot of laughing. I find this heartbreaking and leave visits often in tears. At least I know she is as safe as I can make her, is fed good food and is clean and dressed nicely each day. It is a terrible disease, if Mum could see herself, she would be so upset. I am so glad Dad didn't live to see this also, it would have broken his heart. It is still hard emotionally, but physically it is easier. How long can this go on? I feel some days that she seems to have regressed to the time when she was 17 and had her first marriage. Weird!
Anyway, thanks for reading this, it does help just to write things down. Chants.
Anyway, thanks for reading this, it does help just to write things down. Chants.