Gwendy I am so sorry for your emotional pain and your Dad's physical pain. You can ask that there are no more antibiotics and that you/he want him to be kept comfortable and pain and discomfort free and that you insist he is referred for palliative care. That is if you want to - it is a hard decision and you would have to stand your ground but his quality of life at the moment is very poor from what you are saying.
Thinking of you and sending hugs and love
xxx
Fizzie, I absolutely know that I will have to make a stand. The nearer I get to doing it, the more I feel the enormity of doing so. I was in a similar position with my mum, fighting for everything.. it was easier in that mum was fighting too, mentally strong. I feel very alone fighting this one. Don't get me wrong, my brothers agree, but I'm the 'voice' if you know what I mean. I'm watching my dad suffer daily. God alone knows how he feels when he's alone, struggling to get a breath. As I've written to Red, I plan to meet GP. Hopefully, something positive will come out of it. Surely, there must be something to make him more comfortable. Thank you, your comments make me feel stronger! X
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