Hello,my question is one, more of curiosity. At our local support group(were we have a great gathering) I was quite surprised to here, after dementia diagnose, that family stopped calling, neighbours didn't drop by anymore and many close friends fell by the way.I was wondering how many other carers experienced similiar.My own experience with my 83 year old mum was very similiar`even though at her age many friends have passed away, but a few that were very close to mum dropped off (very sad) not even a odd phone call.Mum's brothers never visit and are more than capable, they do phone 3 or 4 times a year.Neighbours never stop by, but having said that, have offered their help in a crisis and I feel confident that they are sincere with that offer.My brother lives interstate and calls are far and few between as are visits. My sister is in constant contact by phone and email only, as extremely poor health and distance dictates that.Gee when I reflect on mum's life, she was truely every bit a true friend and a wonderful hands on sister, I am hoping that this is not the norm.Thanks again for your time. Taffy