Dad died a month ago today . He was ready to go and it was his time . 86 years old - 61 years of a fantastic marriage - so even though I miss him so much - I know he is out of pain and distress . I cried for a week solid and now shed a tear now and then . I am back at work ( headteacher) and put on a smile and get on with it ! But I am so so tired - is this normal ?