ellie 123 said:But overall, it will be a happier situ than being anonymous in the hospital.
Couldn't agree more, Ellie. I'm sure with a proper care package you and your mum will feel so much better.
What a lovely daughter you are.
Love,
ellie 123 said:But overall, it will be a happier situ than being anonymous in the hospital.
Good question.Can anyone tell me, in simple English, the first steps to fighting for continuing care
ellie 123 said:Mum is going to her home - she's far too ill now to bring down south, so she will be in the same health authority.
Am I going against medical advice - I'm worried now. I was under the impression the hospital were not going to discharge her unless they could, i.e. with the c-diff, etc., and that once mum had the all clear from the hospital point of view, I would just be taking her home - as opposed to demanding she be discharged. If you see what I mean. I definitely don't want to go against them otherwise there will be no empathy from their side at all.
the nurses on mum's ward just say - don't worry you'll know what to do when you get her home =
ellie 123 said:So current situ is I'm waiting on the powers that be to decide on a care package which will be interesting as now it doesn't appear to be palliative care anymore. But as no=one has approached me to discuss the change in the nature of her care, I have decided to sit back and await the call. I've got a sneaky feeling I'm just going to be left to get on with it. But whereas I could cope with being at mum's if the end was close, if it's going to be long term care then I have to bring her to my home and God knows what problems that will cause.