I'd like to find someone out there who is happy and laughs and jokes a lot - who is also caring for a loved one as well or has done - I desperately need some fun and frivolity and to become the happy go lucky person I used to be. I've been living with my mum for about 7 years and looking after her for about 9 years from when she got the first symptoms of dementia. All I ever talk about is related to my mums situation and dealing with it one way or other I moved to yorkshire 7 years ago and have not been able to make any friends because of the isolation of not being able to go out in the evening Now my mum is very frail yet I have decided I want to move out and get a place on my own - over recent months Ive decided this - but am finding it too hard for lots of reasons. Does anyone live in York or nearby who is young at heart and who can help me get rid of my sadness? I don't want sympathy just fun.