Hi ..just joined as my mum is just diagnosed and I,m finding it really hard to deal with her paronia..She is convinced Dad is having an affair with a neighbour, giving her apples over the wall and the last thing is that he is taking his washing to her!
She evenn had har sleeping in the house, muy dad sneaking out to stay with her during the night! she is totally obsessed by this and is the only thing she talks to me about.
I try to listen and keep my cool but somewhere in the conversation I lose it and ask her to make sense of it..she can't! I am starting to hate being alone with her as this is all she talks about and I get very upset about it. My dad is 74 and was very hurt by the allegations but she seems not to discuss them anymore with him...do I let her talk about this or do I try to bring her back to earth?
please help as I really feel I,m not dealing with it the right way! jean
She evenn had har sleeping in the house, muy dad sneaking out to stay with her during the night! she is totally obsessed by this and is the only thing she talks to me about.
I try to listen and keep my cool but somewhere in the conversation I lose it and ask her to make sense of it..she can't! I am starting to hate being alone with her as this is all she talks about and I get very upset about it. My dad is 74 and was very hurt by the allegations but she seems not to discuss them anymore with him...do I let her talk about this or do I try to bring her back to earth?
please help as I really feel I,m not dealing with it the right way! jean
hi rainbow
my mums paranoia, changes from one week to the next, it ranges from people trying to harm her, stealing things from her, my dad having an affair, ETC
she is now on medication and it is a lot better than it was, i think you'l find that paronoia is quite common with dementia in one form or another, we also havent told my mum she has dementia becouse she suffers short term memory loss and she would only forget if we did tell her! although i do think she has some idea she's ill and not as she once was
im afraid the only advice i can offer is to get dad checked out by his GP perhaps he needs some kind of medication to help. is your dad on any medication at all?
and perhaps if youve got a CPN perhaps you could get some advice from them
good luck