My family had to place my father who has alzheimers in a nursing home in February. I am in a dilemma. Because he is in the middle stages i.e. he is lucid, but he does forget and gets confused and gets easily lost, he has been placed in the secure part of the nursing home. This is on the first floor. It really grieves my father that he cannot get outside without having to get a member of staff to take him. Once downstairs, he is allowed to roam in the garden on his own. He also gets very agitated about the state of some of the other residents. Several of them are calling out "help me, help me" to which my father wants to aid them and he does do his best to help them. He does not understand that there is not much anyone can do and gets frustrated with staff for seemingly ignoring residents. He has lead a life where he has liked things to be fair and just and he now does not understand why staff "lie" to residents for not responding to their wishes.
My point really is, I feel my father needs to be secure but there does not seem to be a middle ground where he can interact with residents who are in the nursing home for other reasons and allow him a little freedom. All nursing homes appear to be the same. The assessment is made and it is secure unit or not.
Any thoughts welcome.
My point really is, I feel my father needs to be secure but there does not seem to be a middle ground where he can interact with residents who are in the nursing home for other reasons and allow him a little freedom. All nursing homes appear to be the same. The assessment is made and it is secure unit or not.
Any thoughts welcome.