So the saga continues. The nurse rang me to say that despite all the staff at the nursing home feeling she is end of life and wishing to treat her thus, they called out a GP and the GP has said she isn't end of life, that they should 'encourage' her to eat (at the moment she is offered food but is is acceptable if she refuses it, they don't harass her or keep trying) and more worrying the GP wants her to go back on to medications. These are things that take some time to build up in the system and I am concerned she may get unpleasant side effects going back on to them. The GP who visited is a locum and doesn't know my mother, doesn't know or didn't ask anything about what my mother might have wanted had she been able to say. Which is not to be kept alive in this condition.
The nursing staff have thought of a way around this - they are going to change my mother to a different doctor's surgery, to a doctor who regularly visits the care home and has much more understanding of end of life care and the elderly.
But what a palaver. And of course I am totally befuddled to have been told she is end of life and now she isn't...
The nursing staff have thought of a way around this - they are going to change my mother to a different doctor's surgery, to a doctor who regularly visits the care home and has much more understanding of end of life care and the elderly.
But what a palaver. And of course I am totally befuddled to have been told she is end of life and now she isn't...