Hello All
It has been really helpful to read some of the posts on here, as I find this subject so confusing, there never seems to be a solid answer to any questions!!
My great auntie is 93 and 3 weeks ago yesterday she had a small stroke and was admitted to hospital, within 3 days in hospital she also had a heart attack and the doctors told us she was dying and was on palliative care. As the days past she got better somehow and was talking normally and knew who we all were, although was asking questions of who out of her brothers and sisters had died so was a bit confused but nothing major for a lady of her age and the doctors said she was improving and was no longer on palliative care.
I went to see her in hospital on Tuesday of last week she was asking me about my wedding and although confused one min talking normally then the next asking where she was and why she was there she seemed to be 'normal' in herself! I then went to see her on Friday and she physically looked dramatically different, she is refusing food and drinks, she can’t be more than 6 stone now! She was shouting at me and the nurses it was awful and shocking for me to see her like that. The nurse took me into the family room and said she has very advanced dementia, they had mentioned it previously saying due to her age there are signs of dementia now within a week it is advanced! She also has serious heart failure and obviously cannot go on forever but to see her deteriorate so rapidly (3 weeks ago I visited her at her home where she still did everything for herself and she was fine!). Has anyone else experienced anything like this or this quick? And like other people have asked how long can she go on for?? It’s so awful to see her like this.
Any advice or similar stories would be helpful to read.
Thanks xx
It has been really helpful to read some of the posts on here, as I find this subject so confusing, there never seems to be a solid answer to any questions!!
My great auntie is 93 and 3 weeks ago yesterday she had a small stroke and was admitted to hospital, within 3 days in hospital she also had a heart attack and the doctors told us she was dying and was on palliative care. As the days past she got better somehow and was talking normally and knew who we all were, although was asking questions of who out of her brothers and sisters had died so was a bit confused but nothing major for a lady of her age and the doctors said she was improving and was no longer on palliative care.
I went to see her in hospital on Tuesday of last week she was asking me about my wedding and although confused one min talking normally then the next asking where she was and why she was there she seemed to be 'normal' in herself! I then went to see her on Friday and she physically looked dramatically different, she is refusing food and drinks, she can’t be more than 6 stone now! She was shouting at me and the nurses it was awful and shocking for me to see her like that. The nurse took me into the family room and said she has very advanced dementia, they had mentioned it previously saying due to her age there are signs of dementia now within a week it is advanced! She also has serious heart failure and obviously cannot go on forever but to see her deteriorate so rapidly (3 weeks ago I visited her at her home where she still did everything for herself and she was fine!). Has anyone else experienced anything like this or this quick? And like other people have asked how long can she go on for?? It’s so awful to see her like this.
Any advice or similar stories would be helpful to read.
Thanks xx