I am actually worried about how fast I am forgetting - it is 3 weeks since mum's funeral and it seems like a lot longer. I cried a lot from when she died 8 weeks ago but I have kept myself busy and the feelings are lifting. I looked after my mum for 3 and a half years, seeing her almost every day, slowly deteriorating, and doing everything for her. Her death was actually quite sudden in the end and I thought I would not know what to do with myself. However, I seem to be regaining my life rapidly. Is this normal?