Oh, just reading through some of your posts - how heart wrenching all this is, so many people, struggling beyond what we are capable of.
I just thought I would give you a bit of an update...
My OH has left me completely. He has settled in his new home and is very happy, but the dementia means that I am nothing to him. It happens to so many of us, I know.
Some of you will know how hard I fought to get this resolution for both him and me. I actually thought we would have conversations on the phone or emails and keep in touch - but nothing, I cannot draw him into a conversation - but I am accepting that and am more at peace with myself and sleeping much better.
Then there is the Eviction Notice
I have spent the last 7 weeks scouring the rental market, both private and social - and there is nothing - I have not even been able to view anything, because I simply cannot afford the inflated rates that the current boom has brought about. Locally there are 19,000 on the social housing list........
What I think is Sod's Law is that if my erstwhile other half was still living with me - we COULD afford the private housing market. But on my own, I cannot.
So, by gaining peace and harmony for both him and me - I have shot myself in the foot and feel that under the current market situations, the Landlord will be taking me to court in the autumn to enforce the eviction. I have been told that, again, because of the current situations no Court in the land will send the Bailiffs because I am still paying my rent and actively looking for somewhere. But it is a very unsettling situation.
Even the Landlord's Agent told me it was a 'Perfect Storm.'
I just thought I would give you a bit of an update...
My OH has left me completely. He has settled in his new home and is very happy, but the dementia means that I am nothing to him. It happens to so many of us, I know.
Some of you will know how hard I fought to get this resolution for both him and me. I actually thought we would have conversations on the phone or emails and keep in touch - but nothing, I cannot draw him into a conversation - but I am accepting that and am more at peace with myself and sleeping much better.
Then there is the Eviction Notice
I have spent the last 7 weeks scouring the rental market, both private and social - and there is nothing - I have not even been able to view anything, because I simply cannot afford the inflated rates that the current boom has brought about. Locally there are 19,000 on the social housing list........
What I think is Sod's Law is that if my erstwhile other half was still living with me - we COULD afford the private housing market. But on my own, I cannot.
So, by gaining peace and harmony for both him and me - I have shot myself in the foot and feel that under the current market situations, the Landlord will be taking me to court in the autumn to enforce the eviction. I have been told that, again, because of the current situations no Court in the land will send the Bailiffs because I am still paying my rent and actively looking for somewhere. But it is a very unsettling situation.
Even the Landlord's Agent told me it was a 'Perfect Storm.'