When Mum was at home, her siblings (3 sisters/3 brothers) rarely made contact or visited except for one sister.
Generally being a patient, don't bear grudges type of person, although it annoyed me, I would phne/txt some of her siblings on occasion to let them know how Mum was.
Now that Mum has gone into care ( now over 3mnths) 2 of her sisters have visted and 1 of her brothers. The 1 brother saying he will never go back. It's too depressing, but I heard that he complained bitterly to his sisters , brothers and daughter how awful it was and we had had Mum locked into a prison.... Why not ring us and get the true story!!
Only 1 of Mums sisters and Mums Aunt 86yrs ring regularly to see how she is.
Not one of the other 5 siblings have txtd, messaged or called, and really now I can't be bothered. It's always been one sided. obviously the other sister fills them in, but then really! As Mum is the oldest and the first of her family to ever go into care I would have thought the odd call would be the decent and moral thing to do? Obviously not
Generally being a patient, don't bear grudges type of person, although it annoyed me, I would phne/txt some of her siblings on occasion to let them know how Mum was.
Now that Mum has gone into care ( now over 3mnths) 2 of her sisters have visted and 1 of her brothers. The 1 brother saying he will never go back. It's too depressing, but I heard that he complained bitterly to his sisters , brothers and daughter how awful it was and we had had Mum locked into a prison.... Why not ring us and get the true story!!
Only 1 of Mums sisters and Mums Aunt 86yrs ring regularly to see how she is.
Not one of the other 5 siblings have txtd, messaged or called, and really now I can't be bothered. It's always been one sided. obviously the other sister fills them in, but then really! As Mum is the oldest and the first of her family to ever go into care I would have thought the odd call would be the decent and moral thing to do? Obviously not