Hi all, just thought it would be polite to introduce myself and tell you what brought me here.
I am Josh and I have worked for many years as a carer in various settings, and frequently have cared for people with a range of dementias. However that is not what leads me here today...
What does bring me is increasing concerns for my mum. Mum is 55 and has never had a great memory - but then some people are just that way! However now there are more little incidents revealing themselves that make me wonder if she could be in the early stages of dementia.
I will give some examples so you can understand where I am coming from. Recently she has had conversations with my sister and knows she had important conversations but cannot remember what the subject or content of them were when trying to recall them later.
I have also noticed she is getting confused sometimes with things such as a tv remote. Trying to change channel she was pressing all buttons apart from the ones required and couldnt understand why it would not work. I have also had telephone calls from here saying her computer will not work - it wont do a thing but in the same breath she is saying how lovely the pictures I emailed her were...
Today she was telling me that recently she was sitting talking to a friend of my sisters but just could not remember her name - in her own words the name just vanished. She asked my sister the name of her friend and admitted she didn't know it (my mum has known this woman for 5 years plus so its wasnt someone new to her)
She has said she is concerned about her memory and I have said she should visit the doctor - trouble is she will either forget, say she forgot (but just not told the doctor for fear of what it could be) or only tell the doctor a small part of things. My dad is going to go along with her but he speaks few words at the best of times!
Anyway, thats my story so far. From my experience caring for people this looks like a possible dementia. Hopefully the doc will be able to pinpoint it and manage to minimise the speed at which it progresses. Oh and maybe I should speak to the doc myself before mum sees him to make him aware.
Thanks for listening
Josh
I am Josh and I have worked for many years as a carer in various settings, and frequently have cared for people with a range of dementias. However that is not what leads me here today...
What does bring me is increasing concerns for my mum. Mum is 55 and has never had a great memory - but then some people are just that way! However now there are more little incidents revealing themselves that make me wonder if she could be in the early stages of dementia.
I will give some examples so you can understand where I am coming from. Recently she has had conversations with my sister and knows she had important conversations but cannot remember what the subject or content of them were when trying to recall them later.
I have also noticed she is getting confused sometimes with things such as a tv remote. Trying to change channel she was pressing all buttons apart from the ones required and couldnt understand why it would not work. I have also had telephone calls from here saying her computer will not work - it wont do a thing but in the same breath she is saying how lovely the pictures I emailed her were...
Today she was telling me that recently she was sitting talking to a friend of my sisters but just could not remember her name - in her own words the name just vanished. She asked my sister the name of her friend and admitted she didn't know it (my mum has known this woman for 5 years plus so its wasnt someone new to her)
She has said she is concerned about her memory and I have said she should visit the doctor - trouble is she will either forget, say she forgot (but just not told the doctor for fear of what it could be) or only tell the doctor a small part of things. My dad is going to go along with her but he speaks few words at the best of times!
Anyway, thats my story so far. From my experience caring for people this looks like a possible dementia. Hopefully the doc will be able to pinpoint it and manage to minimise the speed at which it progresses. Oh and maybe I should speak to the doc myself before mum sees him to make him aware.
Thanks for listening
Josh