My dad is like a toddler i have daily tantrums name calling etc every time i get him dressed and the pull ups come out i call it daily tortureFeel for you. It's such an emotive area... I can't get OH to wear any protection if just at home as he doesn't think he needs to. 2 changes of clothing and washing machine on again and he concedes (always a new problem he has to tell me about!) ... and then worries about overnight. Will wear something if we go out though, thank goodness, but it really is the biggest problem we have as it does lead to very bad temper. Can't imagine how difficult this must be with a dad. Would have been totally impossible with mine. Don't think I ever saw him naked, whereas OH is obviously familiar so probably easier.
The carer tried helping him he was shouting at her to get out