Feel like screaming today. Mum came home from the day centre last week and the helper told me mum was refusing to go to the loo! All weekend ive tried to encourage her to go to the loo. I can ask or take her to the toilet 8 or 9 times an hour without any result and then next time shes wet!. We are waiting for the results of a urine test to see if she has another uti. This morning i was getting mum washed (after asking if she wanted to wee, no she didnt) as she stood there she wet herself, i sat her down to take her wet knickers off and they caught on her foot and flicked wee over my face!! Ugh, i cleaned her up and took her to the lounge and went to wash myself and sat on my bed and cried and cried! Not sure if i can cope with all this. Would the doctor be the best person to speak to initially about more help?