My husband is in a dementia unit and now has to wear incontinence pads. When he is changed and cleaned he howls and screams and hits out like a wounded animal. He has always been a "private" person and this is an indignity he just can't take. Has anyone had a similar problem and found a way of making it easier for the patient? It is so distressing for him and me if I am there when he is changed - and I always seem to be - and also very difficult for the staff. Any advice would be welcome.
Janemary
Janemary