Hello, this is my first time posting. My mum has Alzheimer's, and my dad looks after her really well. I have just started noticing that she is having accidents in bed, and when I go to their house to change the bed sheets, there are often wet stained knickers on the radiator. I've asked her if she is having any accidents and she says no, so I just change the sheets and take away the dirty knickers and buy her new ones. It's becoming more and more, and I don't know how to deal with it. If she doesn't think she has a problem, and because I don't live there I don't know what is going on. Any advice would be great, really struggling with how to deal with it, and don't want to upset my mum.