Mum seems to have forgotten that she should use a toilet on a regular basis in the daytime but often wakes dad during the night asking where the toilet is. The first supply of incontinence knickers is arriving on 1st September. The problem is that mum often won't change even though the need is there. Any tips please on how to persuade her? She has carers coming in daily to help and sometimes she can be convinced she needs to change, but at others which is most of the time, she refuses and shouts at the carer that there is the door! I worry that she must be very sore from the effects of wearing dirty underwear for long periods of time. Dad also finds it unpleasant and it creates a lot of washing for him, mainly bedding. He is 89 this year and not in good health.
Also Mum watches TV all day; is this normal? She does not answer dad when he speaks to her. If he asks her is she would like a drink she says yes please but when he speaks to her otherwise, she ignores him. He finds this very frustrating.
Also Mum watches TV all day; is this normal? She does not answer dad when he speaks to her. If he asks her is she would like a drink she says yes please but when he speaks to her otherwise, she ignores him. He finds this very frustrating.