My aunt has early signs of dementia but both her and my Uncle are in denial. They have always managed together as a team but now he is extremely immobile and they can’t do things they used to ie : he can’t drive now, which makes shopping etc impossible. He had a fall and had to go for re-hab, my Aunt had to go too as she can’t be left on her own but thinks she can. It seems extremely unlikely that they will cope at home but it’s all they want to do. I feel like I’m letting them down in all ways but I’m scared if they go home it will end in disaster.