I am a new member. I have a husband with dementia and I am finding it very difficult to deal with his apathy. I try to keep him active because I know that otherwise he will just deteriorate but it is getting more and more difficult as all he wants to do is sit in a chair with his eyes closed when he then falls asleep. He sleeps for England !! I ought to mention that he is 91 and I am 87 but we have always been very active people. Until Covid he played tennis twice a week but unfortunately lockdown put a stop to this otherwise I think he would still be playing and would be quite fit. Now trying to get him to do anything is a struggle.