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negotiations with whom? certainly not you - and in an adult world the negotiations come before denying husband and wife access to marital finances - and they are not financing you, your husband is - they are not financing your husband, he is ????They are in negotiations as to how they will finance me and give me access for money
Angie, I have read all your posts. Your husband and you have no income. Your husbands income goes into his bank account and banks have blocked access. Surely this must be abuse of POA? Having POA means using funds for your husbands care and using it for the usual living expenses. It is your husbands and your money. It is not an inheritance for anyone.Thanks for that. Like all of the amazing people on the Forom we know what this life is like and it is so hard for carers and dementia sufferes alike.
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Completely agree...surely rather than just sending you the letter the solicitor should be advising you of your rights pre poa and as a married partnership etc. I think you are just going to go round in circles until you speak to OPG yourself as everyone else has suggested you do as a priority. At least you will know what they tell you is fact.For heaven sake, ring the OPG, this is all so wrong.
She's already had your bank statements, and aside from anything else, if they have POA they can access this information themselves direct from the bank. Don't know about you, but I don't write many cheques these days.
You shouldn't have to justify your expenditure before the POA came into force, to anyone, surely?
Why do you think you have to go along with that demand? Is your solicitor telling you that you must?She wants all statements and an explanation on everything including our tax returns. .... My sister has spent the day with me and tried to go through all bank statements, cheques and transactions but I can't remember all of them.