This is the first time i've logged on here, although have been looking at some posts for a while. But yesterday my grandmother was diagnosed with lewy bodies and given approx 2 - 12 months to live, but they're estimating 2 months.... she has rapidly declined from being slightly confused in October time to after new year being a different person. I dont know what to do i feel so unhelpful, my grandfather is her main carer and is wanting to take her home from hospital, but the docotrs have told him she needs 24 hour care in a home. i think he wants to say goodbye to her in his own way. my dad (who's mum it is) is tryin to be strong for the family but he looks so weak and tired its the first time ive seen him like this.