I'm so worried about my husband. Two years ago he lost his father suddenly and had to take on the role as carer for his mother who has Alzheimers. I don't believe he has grieved properly and, in addition to the Alzheimers, I'm sure my Mother-in-Law is suffering from depression. Her care has become all-consuming. She doesn't wash or eat and she has lost her remaining teeth this year. Her care is taking its toll on my husband's mental health and our relationship. The latest thing to upset us is that she had a piece of skin on her leg taken for biopsy which left her with a number of stitches and the area very sore. She won't stop picking at it, and when she went to have the stitches removed yesterday, they confirmed an infection and could only find 2 of the 6 stitches! She won't keep the dressing on and my husband saw a fly on the wound yesterday. Thankfully, my husband retires in November and she will be moving in with us as she currently lives alone. She also smokes which is a danger in itself. Thank you for listening.