If I’m close you can ask me for a lift - my little cats back on her wheels & road worthy!Thank you for hugs and good wished.
I got to see OH yesterday. The ward was busy, even though it was Sunday, and I didnt manage to see the doctor. My friend (or rather, the husband of a friend) gave me a lift and when I said how grateful I was told me "Its my pleasure, its what we are here for", but body language said otherwise and I was constantly aware that he was mentally clockwatching, so I felt that I couldnt hang around for long. Sister said that the doctor would phone me to get information about his neurological condition, but no-one did.
The physios arrived while I was there, so I was able to explain about his strange gait and ataxia, but was also able to explain that with his rollator he was able to walk quite a distance. They got him up using a zimmer and with a physio on either side and someone coming up the rear with a wheelchair they got him to walk 2 or 3 steps before he collapsed back into the chair. They think he is going to need a lot of physio.
Today Im going to try and sort out my car. I dont think I will be able to get a lift in, so Ill phone and see how he is.
I promise I won’t clock watch....
I hate it when words say one thing but body language says another!
Don’t want to give moderators palpitations - it’s a horrible negative feeling, when you are at your low points .... really doesn’t cut the mustard!!!!
sending big ((((((((((hugs)))))))))))
Please message me if I can help, the distraction from my own situation &ability to help someone in a positive way would be gratefully appreciated!