Mum died 8 weeks ago and I'm really worried about my sister now. I was sad when mum died and miss her a lot, but feel 'okay' in myself and in many ways am relieved that those last difficult years are over. But my sister is still in a real state. She and her teenage kids have been to stay with me for Christmas and she has been crying all the time and seems depressed, saying that since mum died she can't see the point in getting up in the morning and carrying on with life. I'm worried about her and so are her children (the older one is normally away at uni but the 15 year old lives with her). We don't live very near each other but are in touch a lot by phone. She's had a difficult time in the last 16 months - separated from her partner, moved into a rented flat, had her hours of work reduced, got money worries, eldest left for uni, and she's got MS. Up til mum died she's been coping really well and has always seemed a strong person, but it's almost like mum's death has opened a floodgate. I'm not sure what I need to do to help and would really welcome suggestions and views. Maybe this would be better posted on a bereavement site, but TP is the only forum I know.