I have been told today that a Independent Living Fund Social Worker and the Social Worker we have are coming to see my husband and me on the 16th. I have told the Social Worker that you can not talk about my husband in front of him as he will get very moody and aggitated and try and walk out the house or he will take it out on me and kick. My husband thinks there is nothing wrong with him. The answer i got was that the ILF social worker needs to interview you both. Do these Social Workers know about Alzheimers, as this is going to give me a bad time when they go. Why can they not contact the hospital day care for information about my husband or the GP to avoid this and see me when he is not here. Also my husband does not trust strangers. He has only met the Social Worker once as well and that didnt go well as she said all the wrong things to him. When they come do i warn them that if they upset him i will put in a complaint. What do i do now?