Mum went into care 3 months ago and has been very settled. She has advanced alzheimers and speaks very little now. I visit every couple of days as there is no other family near here but Mum always ignores me now. She is often asleep but even if she is awake when I go in she then puts her head down as if asleep. She interacts a bit more with the carers and I have watched her watching what is going on around her. She also interacts more with my brother when he visits - not that he can visit much as he lives 300 miles away.
I know it is impossible to know what a PWD is 'thinking' but I wonder if she in some way holds me responsible for her being in care as I was the one who took her to the care home. Or maybe I am being paranoid?
I know it is impossible to know what a PWD is 'thinking' but I wonder if she in some way holds me responsible for her being in care as I was the one who took her to the care home. Or maybe I am being paranoid?