Well the 'surprise' arrived today. It's a very large Christmas card with a picture of mum on the front. It's a 'nice' picture, but you can see the decline, not having teeth doesn't help. I wasn't really thinking when I photographed it and sent it to my brother. It's upset him, as I think in his mind he thinks of mum as she was before she went into care. OK at the time he last saw her in March 2019 she thought he was my dad, but she could still hold a discussion of sorts. I guess it's proof that he is really on the mend, as he has been so concerned with his own extremely poor health to worry about anyone else. Let hope a vaccine comes through and he can come over and see her. I just hope he sees her decline is part of the dementia and doesn't start thinking she'd be better if she somewhere else.
In other news we appear to have sold our house again, but have been pipped at the post for the one we wanted where we want to move to. My husband is up looking after his mum at the moment, so very tricky to actually come up with a plan between us, as every time I phone there seems to be some sort of MiL emergency going on.
In other news we appear to have sold our house again, but have been pipped at the post for the one we wanted where we want to move to. My husband is up looking after his mum at the moment, so very tricky to actually come up with a plan between us, as every time I phone there seems to be some sort of MiL emergency going on.